Not everyone feels like a model in front of the camera — and that’s perfectly okay. In fact, some of the most genuine, beautiful images come from people who admit right away, “I’m awkward in photos.” As a photographer, I don’t see that as a problem — I see it as a starting point.
When someone feels stiff or uncomfortable, I shift the focus from posing to moving. I ditch the static instructions and instead give them something to do. I might ask them to walk down a road together, gently bumping hips like they’re teasing each other, or wave their arms in a goofy way just to shake off the nerves. The point isn’t perfection — it’s permission. Permission to play, to forget the camera, and to just be themselves.
Movement breaks tension. It creates connection. It lets people drop their shoulders and laugh for real. These aren’t just tricks to get through a session — they’re the secret to capturing something true. The more natural the action, the more natural the photo.
So if your clients feel unsure, give them something simple, physical, and familiar. Don’t ask them to “act natural” — help them feel it. The magic always follows.
